Get Atomic Attraction (Kindle/Audiobook/Paperback): When you meet a woman for the first time, the woman doesn’t know if you’re strong or weak, stable or unstable, secure or insecure. And even though she might enjoy your company and find you physically attractive, a woman won’t have a measure of your true strength until she’s tested you.
Every time you pass a woman’s test, you move one step closer to proving your value. This is why you must never get frustrated when women test you. Instead, you must view a test as a healthy challenge that must be handled the right way.
If you eliminate weak responses from your repertoire, you’ll find it that much easier to pass a woman’s tests whenever you encounter them. To make it easier to deal with women in times of conflict, it’s always useful to ask yourself one important question: am I acting in a way that’s insecure, or am I acting in a way that’s confident?
Any actions that come from a place of fear and insecurity must be eliminated and replaced with actions based on strength and confidence. To project strength and confidence, it’s useful to keep the following guidelines in mind:
— Don’t try to control her.
— Never beg, plead, or cry.
— Never ask for forgiveness.
— Never become aggressive.
— Avoid showing signs of jealousy.
— Never make a woman your top priority.
— Don’t try to reason, explain, and apologize.
— Don’t chase her with messages and phone calls.
— If she withdraws her attention, never chase her.
— Remain indifferent to her emotions and moods.
— Take the focus off the woman and focus on yourself instead.
— Deflect rude, disrespectful behavior with humor and indifference.
One question that often comes up is whether women consciously test men or not? The answer is both yes and no. A woman is always testing you, and she’s always looking to get a measure of your strength to see how you handle yourself in difficult situations.
If you react with weakness and insecurity, a woman will pull away from you and continue to test you until she either loses all attraction for you or you shore up your weakness and she comes to realize that you’re high-value and it’s safe for her to continue to invest her emotions into you.
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